I don't feel comfortable being my EX BOYFRIENDS friend. HELP!!!!?

i know E X A C T L Y where you're coming from. its a L O T harder when youre the one wishing u were back together. do a 30 day no contact rule- hell understand if he really means it when he says you're friends. also, look back on the time you spent together. dont just look at all the happy mushy memories; also look at all the thingsthat he did to hurt you. if its ur first heartbreak, (apparently) there's always gonna b a place in ur heart for him , but know that now ur one step closer to ur true soul mate (: